The most valuable gifts can't be bought

The most sought after and precious gifts you can give won’t cost you a dime.

You can’t buy them online or at the mall. What's more, these valuable gifts are available for you to give freely, anytime. You don't need to wait for a special occasion. One size fits all, and no matter who you give these gifts to, they are a good fit. There’s no worries about gift receipts, returns, or guessing whether your gift will be the right one.

And what’s even better – when you give one of these to someone else, you give the same to yourself.

Here’s a list of gifts that are sure to fit everyone on your list, for any occasion, at any time of year.

1. Non-judgment - When you give the gift of non-judgment, you give one of the best presents ever. Judgment as an energy is heavy, cold, stubborn, unyielding. Once you stop playing the judgment game, you can lighten up, instantly. Fears drop away, life is a happier place. When you decide to stop being in judgment, and allow others to be who they are right now, you remove a heavy load from them, and also from yourself.

If the person you’ve been judging most harshly is yourself, give yourself the gift of letting go of self criticism, and replace it with self love. You are then giving two gifts in one! By loving yourself, you become a gift for others, without lifting a finger. A person who accepts and loves himself or herself is a joy to be around.

2. Forgiveness - When you forgive yourself, you no longer hold yourself back from your own life. By forgiving someone else, you give both them and yourself a supreme gift. You make it possible for real healing to happen, even if that person is no longer alive.

Carrying the energy of forgiveness can help you to release dark heavy unhappy energies from your spirit. When you forgive someone for anything, you take your own power back. You cease being a victim. You become a beautiful example of the healing power of forgiveness. Highly recommended: watch the documentary ‘Forgiving Dr. Mengele’ for a true life example of the healing power of forgiveness.

3. Gratitude - By now the healing properties attributed to having an ‘attitude of gratitude’ are well known. It feels good to feel grateful – it’s a feeling you can feel throughout your whole spirit and body. But did you also know that when you carry this vibration with you, you become a healing force for others to be around?

You can do this without any effort at all, and without giving away your healing energy to all those you come into contact with. You become a healing even for those you don’t know, when you’ve set your own energy at gratitude.

4. A Positive Attitude - When you choose to walk through life with a positive view, you are also embracing energies like amusement, peace, joy, kindness, and happiness. You’ve become skilled at letting go of small things that really do not matter. You are working from a bigger picture, spiritually speaking.

All who come into contact with you will benefit from being in your presence, even if it doesn’t seem like they can have the same positivity. In fact, some people may get downright ornery when you’re positive! This is where the energy of amusement comes in handy.

Keep your eyes on the prize, as the saying goes. What you prize, whatever you focus on, is where you’ll have more power to create. Having a positive view of life contributes dramatically to your overall health and well being. Especially in the face of challenging rough transformation, it's important to find your peaceful positive attitude. You won't have it perfectly, and you won't have it every day, but if you try to have it at all, it will change you. You become a true leader once you do this.

These green gift ideas don’t use up precious resources from the planet.

In fact, they bring healing wherever they are given. When you give one of them to another person, that person is very likely going to re-gift what you gave, while also having it for themselves.

In a surprisingly short time, your gift can double, triple, and continue to grow until it spreads like wildfire. You create real change in the world when you become conscious of the energies you allow to run through you. You become the gift.

• ©Kris Cahill
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