Perfection can really bite
Perfection isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
There’s nothing wrong with aiming for perfection or wanting to be excellent. The desire to get things right isn’t a harmful one, not in the least.
Being your best self means that you’re willing to do the work you need to do to embellish yourself. It's validating and satisfying to know that you did your best. It’s helpful to have a meaningful goal to work towards. It's really fun to grow.
The art of being spontaneous and letting go of control
The possibility for unscripted, spontaneous beauty exists in every moment.
Out of control beauty is everywhere! When you are present in the moment, life's great improvisation flows in a magnificent way.
Your most fun memories might be from spontaneous, magical moments, events that occurred without a big plan. Things just happened, unexpected people showed up, and a beautiful time was had by all. The energy was perfect, without trying to make it that way.