Notes on reading books and people
I grew up an enthusiastic reader, and spent many happy hours with my nose in a book.
I’m grateful to have had parents who encouraged my love of reading, and had it for themselves too. Our house was a home filled with books and permission to create. From the beginning, reading books sparked my curiosity and sense of wonder, as well as my creativity.
Hiding won’t help you get what you want
Hiding is a tactic, whether conscious or not, that prevents you from being seen.
If you want to create success for yourself, your business, creations, and other offerings, hiding doesn’t work. In order to attract what it is you want, you’ll need to step out of the shadows at some point and let others notice you. What’s more, you’ll have to say, “here I am!”. It takes a certain ownership of yourself, along with feeling safe enough to be seen, in order to stand out in the crowd.
Some species of insects, animals, and plants survive by blending into their environment. The idea is that if they don’t stand out too much, nobody will notice them or try to eat or otherwise interfere with them.
When you decide it's time for you to be seen
When you decide it's time for you to be seen, you will be seen. Are you ready?
The act of deciding changes everything. You have chosen to take a step.
A clear decision to be seen will help you head confidently to the place where you get to decide again, and then make another decision after that. It depends on how you want to be seen.
Be the star of your own life
Some people believe there's not much to see when you look at them.
They don't imagine that they can be the star of anything.
They picture themselves as being small and plain, without much talent or ability at anything special. They constantly compare themselves to others and always come up short.
As a result, they hide their talents, are often invisible, and can't be seen behind all of the invalidating energy that surrounds them.
Can you let your light be seen?
When you show up as your true self, it is you who will be seen.
It sounds simple enough, doesn't it? If you want to be seen as yourself, you have to show up and be who you are. This means you need to let go of any energy that tells you you're not enough, that says you should hide until you earn the right to step up.
It's a little nerve wracking to step out of the crowd that only moments ago you were trying so hard to fit into, and to show us all who you are.