Who or what are you trying to control?
Trying to control is key here, because that’s all you can really do with most beings and situations, try to have control.
When it comes down to it, you have no control over anything outside of yourself. It’s not your job to control anyone, though you may have agreed to do so. When you are doing this to others, you are also in their space, ie: invading them. When you try to control the actions of another, or the outcome of a situation, you are in danger of losing your own energy, and of forgetting that you have much more of an effect on the situation by staying in your own space.
Many of us have controlled in order to feel safe.
You are here to give your gifts
It’s not a throw of the dice, or a mere coincidence that you were born with the talents and skills you have.
You might have accepted your gifts as being part of who you are. You’re right about this, but there’s more to look at here. Each of the talents you’ve opened up and developed has given to you in more ways than you might validate for yourself. Each has been a gift you had to choose to acknowledge, then open up and use.
In order to use your gifts and abilities, you had to do some work.
Meditation helps you to let go of the fears of others
Here’s another great reason to get your daily meditation practice on.
Being a human being is pretty intense. There is a lot to get through, every day.
Especially during times of great change and upheaval, the level of intensity increases. This time counts as one of those times. Spiritual evolution is upon us, in a great big wonderful juicy way. Being able to let go of what you can't control is a skill to have right now.